Dating a narcissist
Generally, there are two types of narcissists: the somatic narcissist (hyperactive sexually) and the cerebral narcissist (hypoactive sexually).The somatic narcissist gains his ‘narcissistic supply’ from other people’s reactions to his body via sexual conquests, bodybuilding, athletic abilities, competence in outdoor activities, or sometimes simply preening.Narcissists commit adultery and have extramarital affairs or liaisons for a variety of reasons including control, power, attention, increasing self-image and because narcissists get bored easily. Narcissists are unable to empathize or genuinely love another person.They are master manipulators and know how to fake intimacy; but when their partner no longer meets their “fix” for narcissistic supply, they will drop them and abandon them with no remorse.Partners frequently feel used, even before being abandoned.
It was a deal with the devil and you were easy prey. You could not have known that this man was a sociopath (I call them bloodless sociopaths because they don’t commit physically violent crimes) Their crimes are psychological, emotional and financial.Call upon a few friends who are there for you at any time. Be faithful to yourself and your future as a free individual who deserves to use all of your creative gifts and energies and to experience healing and deep inner peace.The sexual attitudes of narcissists are most peculiar- they tend to be either hyperactive sexually or hypoactive sexually.You are derided, criticized and treated like a piece of trash.You are always in fight or flight mode–there is no let up.
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Your blood pressure is high; you are getting constant infections and flus. First, recognize that you are married to a psychological criminal –a person who doesn’t give a damn about you and will replace you with someone else if he already hasn’t.